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Embracing Change & What’s Next for Me

Life throws all kinds of curve balls at us all the time. I still haven’t gotten used to change and I don’t know if I ever will. I’m more comfortable with it than I used to be, this much is true, but it still bothers me and causes me to get cranky sometimes. Change is a little easier to digest ...

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Feeling Lonely in your Relationship?

I’ve been struck by loneliness many times in my life, whether I’ve realized that’s was it was or not. The pang of loneliness in one’s heart can strike deep and hard sometimes. For me, it shows up as a sinking feeling deep within my chest and travels down to the pit of my stomach making me feel uneasy and anxious. ...

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Opening Your Heart to Let Love In

    A funny thing happens to some people when they make commitments in relationships. Some people experience all of their deep fears coming to the surface and all of a sudden the fears seem bigger than ever. I remember when I was single thinking about how all I wanted was the unwavering commitment from a man, and then when ...

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Dealing with Disagreements in a Relationship

It’s a lovely Sunday morning in my house. André and I are eating a delicious breakfast of waffles, tea, eggs and fresh fruit. The sun is streaming in the windows, my little water fountain is splashing away, and IzzaBelle is seated in her own chair at the table waiting for her serving of fresh avocado. There’s coffeehouse chill playing on ...

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Happier Alone than in a Relationship?

Sometimes I feel like I’m going for a Master’s Degree in Difficulty in Relationships School. No matter how hard I work on myself, no matter what level of self-awareness I try and tap into, things just feel like I’m banging my head again a brick wall over and over again. Have you ever felt like this?! When I was young ...

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Get out of your Comfort Zone and Find Love

Getting out of your comfort zone and dating guys that aren’t your type, or sharing your space with someone new can be downright terrifying. I get it. It can be tough for a lady who is so used to her routine and doing things her way to know when it’s time to step out of her comfort zone when it ...

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How to Find a Man Ready for Relationship Commitment

If you had asked me while I was in my last serious relationship whether or not it was a committed one, at the time I would have said yes. We were living together and talking about future plans so to me, that meant commitment. I had waited a long time to be with someone who was ready to get serious ...

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Ways to Support Your Partner without Nagging or Judging

  Ever wanted to support your partner in personal growth or development but end up feeling super naggy or judgey? Does your partner take your helpful suggestions when it comes to their own personal improvement as criticism and then nothing constructive happens, like, ever?! This topic hits close to home for me (I seem to be a professional Nagger of ...

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3 tips for Nailing the “Where is this going?” Talk

It’s the age old question a lot of women want to ask as soon as they realize they like a guy they’ve been dating casually. “So, where is this going….exactly?” Translation: “I like you and I want you to like me and I want us to begin spending a lot more time together and for you to fall in love ...

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